Author: sixgateways
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Riding the Dragon: Needs and Attachment in Non-Monogamy
March 14, 2024 I’ve been ruminating on this topic for the last month, after working with several couples and individuals in my practice who are opening into polyamory and non-monogamy in a bigger way than ever before — and are surprised when it brings up so many emotional triggers. My own lived experience comes up…
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You Might be Polyamorous If…
Let me tell you a story… Once upon a time there was a young 18 year old girl who loved her boyfriend, but longed for her first love, the artist. She also liked her Physics study partner, her tennis partner, and the Medical Student. She kept telling herself that these were just young college girl…
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Let’s Talk About Sex Baby
I’m experiencing a sexual renaissance that reminds me of how sex felt when I was in my 20’s. The difference is that while my younger self had no idea what to do with all her sexual energy, I have years of tantra practice and experience to help direct me. Boy am I having fun. Now…
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How to be a Self-Care Ninja
On a day like today when I’m dealing with an appraiser coming to the house, writing my book, and marketing tasks, in addition to client appointments, it’s challenging. Add to that a hefty dose of all my friends and loved ones calling on the same day to connect, getting ready to move, and a difficult…
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Taking Care of Yourself When You Take Care of Other People
I’ve been a spiritual coach for twenty years and there’s one thing I know about that — if I don’t take care of myself I am no good to anyone else. I first learned this lesson when I became a Mom. I was working with clients and taking care of a young child. I was…